Lindsey recently wrote a breathtaking post about what thirty-eight looks like for her. I am just a few months away from turning thirty (which alternately seems totally normal and a bit overwhelming), so I thought I’d do my own take.
This is twenty-nine.
Twenty-nine is on the cusp of her third decade, seven years out of college and five years married. Twenty-nine is content so far to play the cool aunt, though she’s starting to wonder about having kids of her own.
Twenty-nine has successfully held down a series of real, full-time jobs with benefits and retirement plans, but still sometimes struggles to feel like a grown-up inside.
Twenty-nine looks in the mirror and sees her mother: the big green eyes, the shy smile, the long eyelashes. Twenty-nine hears both her mother’s advice and her dad’s punny jokes come out of her mouth all the time.
Twenty-nine always packs an extra book (or two) in her bag, makes sure to carry cash (but not too much), pays her bills on time, plans out meals for the week on a dry-erase board in the kitchen. Twenty-nine believes in being prepared.
Twenty-nine is slowly realizing that some friendships will fade with time, in spite of (sometimes because of) the relentless onslaught of social media minutiae. And that some friendships will endure in surprising ways.
Twenty-nine still keeps a handwritten journal as she has done since she was six, and has carted several boxes of old journals to half a dozen houses and apartments.
Twenty-nine still loves the boy she fell in love with at nineteen, and can hardly believe they will celebrate a decade of being together in November.
Twenty-nine is learning to resist the allure of cheap clothes in favor of well-made pieces. Twenty-nine is embracing her signature style rather than chasing trends, though her favorite pieces of clothing still tend to come from her sister’s closet.
Twenty-nine knows what it is to grieve, to question, to struggle with faith and come out on the other side with a faith that acknowledges all kinds of doubts. Twenty-nine believes, increasingly, that community and grace are far more important than doctrines or creeds.
Twenty-nine is learning to loosen up, to laugh more, to plan spontaneous adventures, to be silly sometimes rather than so serious all the time.
Twenty-nine is learning how to balance nice and honest, learning not to apologize for who she is.
Twenty-nine dreams of many more adventures, but is deeply grateful for her life as it is right now.
Such a lovely testament to who you are and to who you are continuing to become!
I love, love, LOVE this. Wonderful!! xoxo
You captured 29 beautifully, just as beautiful as you are.
What a beautiful response! I am fairly new to your blog but I look forward to each new one. Your writing is terrific.
Beautiful post, Katie!
I love this post, love the idea of it as well as your graceful responses. It’s a nice introspective exercise for any age…I wonder what mine (57) would look like ??
Love this! I’m also 29 and just a month away from 30, hard to believe! 😀
29 is beautiful on you Katie. 30 will be even more so.
Love.
Best comment ever? The one above mine.
Beautiful post.
If we could all adopt this attitude toward life, we’d be a happier people. Thanks for the reminder.
Great post as always – very thoughtful and moving with a dash of humour!
A fitting post for twenty-nine, giving me pause to remember my own twenty-nine, many moons ago. These resonate with me, even now, Katie, though I’ve past through many more decades, and, oh, by the way, I’m still in love with the boyfriend I had when I was 19 (and we’ve been married 40 years this past spring).
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