My husband is a focused, determined shopper. Like many men I know, he is generally not interested in browsing. I have finally managed to convince him that bookstores were meant to be browsed, though he usually picks out one book and starts reading it while I wander the aisles. But if we’re at the mall, Target, or the grocery store, he’s usually on a mission: how quickly can he get in, find what he needs, and get out?
While I enjoy browsing the racks at my favorite stores, I’m finding my husband’s mindset helpful for my lunch breaks on these frigid winter days. When I don’t want to get up from my desk, I tell myself I have to – because I have a mission.
Sometimes it’s the post office, the bank or the pharmacy. Sometimes I’m on the hunt for a particular book, or a birthday card for a friend. Sometimes I’m in need of a certain item, as I was last week when my sunglasses broke. And occasionally, the mission is simply to go to the Gap or Ann Taylor or Anthropologie, and see what’s new on the sale rack.
In any case, on these days when it’s too cold to wander and tempting to stay inside, it helps to have a goal in mind, an impetus to propel me outside for a bit of exercise and a break from the computer screen. I always feel energized after I get out and about, and I love walking the tangle of streets in Harvard Square. And sometimes – if it’s just too bitter out or I have no particular errand that day – I head to one of my favorite cafes for a cuppa and a little writing time.
How do you give yourself a boost on these cold days? Do you find it helps to go on a mission?
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Getting outside on winter days is essential for me. Even though the task of putting on all my layers and propelling me outside is annoying, I’m always always glad I did!
This is the first winter I’ve had trouble with winter blues. It’s a struggle sometimes. I’ve found that lunch dates with friends is a lifesaver. Not only forcing me to get out, but also having some laughs! A quick walk around the garden to peek under the row covers at the baby vegies that have miraculously survived the harsh cold gives me a few moments of sunshine (not that we’ve had much of that for weeks on end) and fresh air. Our grocery store routinely has manager’s specials on flowers when a new shipment comes in. They are a real bargain! And bright and lovely and perfect for my kitchen table! Every little bit helps!
I totally agree! I try to go out every day even when I don’t have to work, although sometimes it’s too tempting to just stay bundled up indoors. I try to save up a few errands to do each day.