After work on Friday evening, I caught the bus from Harvard Square to a house on a hill in Lexington, where my friend Hannah lives. I had a bottle of (boxed) rosé in my bag, and a poem to share with the women in my book club (we dubbed this meeting our “poetry potluck”). I walked up Massachusetts Avenue from the bus station in the soft evening light, the first act of Hamilton in my headphones.
When I pushed open the screen door, I found Hannah and our friend Rachael standing in the kitchen, chopping apples and kale, seeding pomegranates, laying figs and prosciutto out on a cutting board. I greeted them (and Percy the cat), then joined the action: whisking eggs for an omelet, slicing cheddar cheese, pouring water. The three of us gathered around a small round table, munching and laughing, talking about TV shows and weddings, work and friendship, the stuff of daily life. Two other members joined us later, and the five of us moved into the living room, curling up on chairs and couches, barefoot, utterly at ease together.
We took turns reading our chosen poems aloud: words by Billy Collins, Wislawa Szymborska, Elizabeth Alexander, Kevin Young. We dipped black bean chips into spicy salsa and poured out the last of the rosé, and heaved open the windows to listen to (and smell) a glorious fall rain. Much later, Louisa and I caught an Uber back to Cambridge together, and I walked the few blocks from her street to Central Square, listening to the rain patter on my umbrella.
The whole evening felt like a gift – a deep breath I badly needed.
This September has been crowded and insistent, hot and demanding – at work, at home, all over the place. The national news has been full of raw grief, and I have also been dealing with some heartaches (my own and other people’s) closer to home. Last week felt particularly hard and helpless, so much so that I couldn’t even write about it here. Hope and peace have been difficult to find.
That evening of poetry and rich conversation did not erase my problems: none of us left Hannah’s that night with a magic solution to our own struggles or the continuing (seemingly intractable) problems of race relations and civil discourse in this country. The pain and fear are still present: they have not disappeared, and neither have the smaller daily trials we all must face. But those hours in that living room, laughing and listening and holding space for each other’s stories, were a balm to my soul. They are lingering in my memory, bolstering me up as I face another week. And I am grateful.
Wishing you a peaceful week, friends – with lots of deep breaths.
Sigh…
Those moments are priceless….and needed.
Love this. I have always wanted to join or start a book club, but can never seem to find people that are equally interested and able to commit. I would love to find a group like the one you’ve found for yourself. I hope this week will be better for you!
I sort of stumbled into this book club, but am very grateful for it! Thanks for the kind words.
That sounds so lovely. I’m glad you had an oasis for the evening.
An oasis – exactly. Thanks, friend.
That sounds like a wonderful evening. Glad you had moment of peace. Kevin Young is faculty here and is the poetry curator at my library!
Really?! We were all stunned by this poem of his.
Loved it, sounds beautiful. I’ve been feeling like that as well lately, need a cozy night with friends soon!
I love that you wrote about this. It really was a perfect night.
It so was. xo
oh wow, sounds like the absolutely perfect evening with friends. What a gift.