Posted in books, musings, tagged attention, Barbara Brown Taylor, community, daily life, faith, Harvard, hope, Memorial Church, small things on March 13, 2017|
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Last week, I had the pleasure of speaking at Morning Prayers, the brief service held every weekday at Harvard’s Memorial Church, across the Square from where I work.
I’ve been a sporadic attendee at Morning Prayers for a while, a more regular one this year, slipping into a pew to soak up the choral music and participate in the psalm readings, the Lord’s Prayer and the closing hymns. But this was my first time speaking there.
Perhaps unsurprisingly, I chose to talk about what is saving my life now: reading a beloved passage by Barbara Brown Taylor, and explaining how that phrase of hers has captured and held my attention for several years. Here’s a snippet of my talk:
What is saving your life now?
It’s not a question I had ever considered in just this way, until I read it in Taylor’s book. I’d heard similar questions, phrased slightly differently: what are you grateful for? What’s making you happy these days?
But this question, with its insistence on what is vital, sneaked into my soul and set up camp there. And I’ve been amazed at the simple power of continuing to ask it. […]
It’s been a hard few months to live in the world – a hard year or so. I find myself need the reminder – and maybe you do too – that what can save our spiritual lives is the physical, embodied, daily experience of life on this earth. We are creatures who walk around in our bodies, breathing the air, dependent on food and drink for our survival, affected by our environment in a thousand ways, no matter how much we try to insist otherwise. As I kept asking this question, I found that, so often, what is saving my life now are the small things. Many of them are physical, tangible. And all of them are related to my daily, walking-around life in this world.
You can listen to the full service – just under 15 minutes – on the Memorial Church website. (My talk starts at about 4:25.) And as always, I’d love to hear about what is saving your life now.
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Posted in books, food, friendship, musings, tagged Barbara Brown Taylor, daily life, flowers, lists, tea, TV, whimsy, winter on February 1, 2016|
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I feel like winter is all I’m talking about here lately. (Well, winter and books. Because I’m always talking about books.)
I forget, every year, how winter takes over my life. It affects my commute, my diet (everything warm and spicy, please), my wardrobe (what goes with fleece-lined tights)?, my mental state. And although we escaped the recent blizzard with just a few inches of snow, it’s still cold, dark and sometimes icy out there.
Since winter is hard for a lot of us, my friend Anne put out a call for answers to this question: what is saving your life right now?
She didn’t make up the question, and neither did I – we both got it from Barbara Brown Taylor. But it’s too good a question not to revisit once in a while. Especially when things are tough.
So, in the midst of short days and long nights, constant subway delays and unpredictable weather, family illness and work stress and frustrating news from all over the world, it strikes me as not only good but necessary to list the things that are saving my life now. (I’m linking up with Anne and others – feel free to join us!)
- A few pages of Lonesome Dove every morning over breakfast. I am loving the epic story of Augustus McCrae, Woodrow F. Call, and their journey from Texas to Montana. (My dad adores it, but I’ve never read it before.)
- My snazzy red journal, a gift from my sister.
- Chitchat with my favorite sandwich-maker at Darwin’s, who has dreads halfway down his back, a fondness for tie-dye and a warm, wide smile.
- Sea salt and vinegar chips (a new addiction).
- Molly’s scones, which I cannot stop making (and eating).
- Chai lattes from Darwin’s (also known, on some days, as the elixir of life).
- Weekly group emails from the Great New Books ladies.
- Related: stacks of good books. And my favorite bookish podcasts.
- Blue skies, which can turn an entire day around.
- Twinkle lights in my living and dining room.
- Tea in my favorite blue mug (above).
- Scarves and boots and fleece-lined tights.
- The display of local art in the hallway at work. So cheery and colorful.
- Tulips on my dining-room table.
- The final season of Downton Abbey, which (so far) is so good.
- Texts from a couple of stalwart friends.
- The staycation my husband and I were able to take this weekend (of which more soon).
- Sunday nights around the table at Ryan and Amy’s.
It’s your turn. What is saving your life right now?
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